As a mother of three children with a fourth on the street, Kylie Kelce has been at the birthday holidays of some children – and there is a trend she is “forcibly against”.
There is a new trend where parents waiting for children’s birthday holidays not only expect gifts for their son or birthday daughter – they also demand that holiday guests bring gifts to the sisters of the child.
“I will say that I am strongly against the idea of other children who receive birthday gifts on a child’s birthday,” Kelce, 32, divided into an episode of her famous Podcast “Not Gonna Gonni”.
The trend gave Tiktok attention earlier this month when a mother showed that her 6-year-old child returned home from school with an invitation to another child’s birthday, and the invitation asked parents to bring a gift to the younger brother as well, so he is not “left out”.
The mother indicated that she was “on the floor”, adding that it is the responsibility of her mother’s mother-not her-has a gift to her 3-year-old if you think someone is needed.
Kelce – who is waiting for her fourth child with husband Jason Kelce, a former star player for Philadelphia Eagles – has made a craze with her honest thought in Podcast.
The mother of three girls indicated that they are preparing to celebrate numerous birthdays very close together. Kelce’s youngest, Bennett, returned 2 years old on February 23 and the middle child Elliotte turns 4 years old on March 4. Their oldest daughter, Wyatt, will celebrate her sixth birthday in October.
“Our family does not know that no one else is receiving a birthday gift for Bennett’s birthday,” she said. “Everyone gets a special day. When your brothers and sisters receive gifts for your birthday, it reduces your birthday. It’s not their birthday – it’s your birthday.
“Also, I think you teach them to some extent just because someone is getting gifts doesn’t mean you get gifts,” Kelce added. “Feels very much participants trophy-esque.”
Experts agreed to Kelce that parents need to teach their children how to navigate their emotions when a sister is receiving a gift and they are not.
Claire Vallotton, a professor of human development and family studies at Michigan State University, explained to the USA Today that parents may think they are helping the other child to avoid feeling outdated, jealous or sad – but it is normal to experience those feelings, and they are emotions that children will experience throughout their lives.
“Our early childhood is when we have to build that group of coping and build that resistance about unpleasant emotions,” Valotton said. “Parents lack an opportunity to help the sister’s sister manage and learn about unpleasant emotions.
“A child who does not have those opportunities or is being given the message that it is not good to have those emotions will feel like there is something that does not go with them,” she said, adding that they can “potentially be separated when they then face inevitable inevitable emotions later in life.”
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